The Manipulation of Care: When Love Becomes Control

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The Manipulation of Care: When Love Becomes Control By Bonnie Adams, LMFT | Off the Beaten Couch | Series: The Truth About Addiction and Abuse December 09, 2025 When we think of abuse, we often picture shouting, violence, or threats. When we think of addiction, we picture chaos, pain, or someone who...

The Myth That Addiction Causes Abuse

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The Myth That Addiction Causes Abuse: Untangling the Truth By Bonnie Adams, LMFT | Off the Beaten Couch | Series: The Truth About Addiction and Abuse “When he got sober, he stopped drinking but he didn’t stop controlling me.” Bonnie Adams A Utah-based Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in ad...

The Substance User: Understanding the Center of the Storm in Family Addiction Dynamics

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The Substance User: Understanding the Center of the Storm in Family Addiction Dynamics June 04, 2025 Addiction doesn’t just affect the individual using substances—it transforms the entire family system. Families often unconsciously adapt by taking on specific roles to cope with the chaos and pain. T...

How to Recognize the Signs of Addiction in a Loved One—and Take Action (Without Losing Yourself)

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How to Recognize the Signs of Addiction in a Loved One—and Take Action (Without Losing Yourself) 4/24/25 Addiction doesn’t just impact the person struggling—it reshapes the lives of everyone around them. As a family member or friend, you might feel like you’re walking on eggshells: “Are they just st...